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Daddy Do List: Midsummer Checkup

July 20th 2010 04:28
I was surprised to realize today that I'm about halfway through summer vacation already. I wrote a Daddy Do List a while ago about my goals for things to do with my son this summer, and I figure now is a good time to check on how they're coming along!

Goal one was teaching him the alphabet. He's actually doing pretty well on that, though it's not going as orderly as I originally intended. He learned A, B, and C really easily, and frequently points out the letters when we're out and about. I get a little thrill every time he says "That's an A!" However, just like he has a mental block about the number four, he can't seem to pick D up. I've also noticed he does much better if it's him directing what letters he wants to learn. If he actually asks about a letter he sees, he learns it a lot better than me showing him a letter and telling him what it is. That's how he learned O, E, S, and V-he saw them and asked about them, and now he remembers them. So now he knows something like 8 or 9 letters, which I think is a good start!

Goal two was getting him to remember the number four. Results are spotty so far. Still needs work.

Goal three was to use his pool. No dice so far. We have, however, started using his bike trailer every day he's with me to go to the park and then on the three-mile loop I usually use for running. He loves it, and has requested that I make a helmet for his stuffed Cookie Monster so he can stay safe in the bike trailer too. So no pool, but we're using the bike trailer, so I figure it evens out. Plus it's keeping me in shape because I don't get out running nearly as much as I want to.

Goal four was taking Mommy lunch once a week. Every Friday so far! We go and eat at the park near where she works, and he loves to watch the people swimming in the lake. So much so that we often have to carry him back to the car mad when Mommy has to go back to work!

Goal five is cleaning up his toys. Another ongoing process. He's doing better though, if he doesn't get distracted...and being my son, he's very, very easily distracted.

We've kind of added a Goal Six, which is getting going on the potty training. He doesn't show much interest in it yet, but we're working on it a little. They also work on it at his daycare, but he hasn't shown much interest there either. We're not too worried about it yet.

So that's the midsummer checkup. I think we're making good progress. If nothing else, it's been fun so far!
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The Vaccine Song!

July 15th 2010 04:45
As you may have figured out by now, I'm very strongly in favor of kids getting vaccinated. Eventually I plan to write a third and final part of my Vaccinate Your Kids series about how preventable diseases are making a comeback, but in the meantime, I give you "The Vaccine Song" by Ted Willmore, which is just plain awesome. I tried to embed it, but it's apparently too big for this blog format so you'll have to follow the link. Enjoy!
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At family camp last weekend I saw a lot of examples of kids acting like their parents. It's the Nature vs. Nurture argument again. I see this at school but only occasionally see the kids and parents together. It was another reminder of how much kids pay attention and emulate their parents, even if they don't realize it.

And it's not always in a good way. We were at camp, which meant listening to directions from staff and at one point, sitting around a campfire while the counselors talked, tried to get people to sing, and gave instructions to get s'more making to run smoothly. These are some of the observations I made.

To the woman sitting behind us at the campfire: I do not want to hear the music you're playing on your cell phone. Turn it off. The staff are trying to get people involved in activities. Do you have any clue how disrespectful it is to sit there and listen to music while they're talking? And forcing everyone around you to listen to it too because you can't be bothered to put on headphones is just rude. That explains why your kids are running around, talking over the counselors, and not listening. That and the fact that you're not doing anything about it.

To the guy I played paintball with, who volunteered to do one of the campfire games with your son while no one else was paying attention: nice work.

To the other parents that were just letting your kids run all over the place while you just talked to each other and paid no attention to the staff: Rude. Freakin' rude. We teach respectful listening at the school I work at. Apparently you missed the lesson when you were in school. The short and sweet version is shut up and look at who's talking (though we obviously phrase it differently at school!). You supposedly wanted to come to this camp. Doing so means you agree to follow the rules of the camp and listen to the people working there. If you're not ready to do that, stay home. Don't ruin it for the rest of us.

Final food for thought: there were 33 moms signed up for the camp, and only 15 dads. Apparently this is a pretty good ratio for them...I find it kind of sad. Step it up, dads.
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Family Camp Adventures

July 12th 2010 00:41
My wife, son, and I got back today from the Salvation Army's Family Camp at Army Lake Camp in East Troy, Wisconsin. It was a great weekend! We had a lot of fun. It's a weekend camp, Friday through Sunday, which was at the same time a good length (for having our son way off of his normal schedule) and far too short! They had a range of activities for the family, from crafts and boat rides to archery and paintball (I still have a few welts!). Overall the weekend was a blast, and I would highly recommend you look into whether the Salvation Army does camps in your area!
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In my last vaccination post, I talked about the start of the anti-vaccination movement. The whole thing is based on an unethical doctor named Andrew Wakefield, and a study he did that has been discredited to the point that it was removed from the journal that published it based on bad research and huge conflicts of interest.

So if it's been proven that vaccines don't cause autism, why do people still believe it? Two main reasons are celebrities and bad logic


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Gender Debate: Decision Day

June 28th 2010 13:11
Well, today is our ultrasound where we have the option of finding out the baby's gender. And I've apparently lost the debate.

My wife still doesn't want to find out. We've talked about it a hundred times since the issue first came up, and she still won't bend. Being a naturally curious person (if there a possibility I can know something, I want to know it), I want to find out. She doesn't want to with this one, since we did find out with our son. My main argument is that it's a surprise whether we find out now or later-and we'll be better prepared if we find out now. Her main argument is damn it, she's the one who's pregnant, so her vote counts twice and I lose! She states her case a bit more eloquently than that, but that's what it boils down to...at least in my somewhat biased opinion


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There is no proven link between vaccines and autism. Let's get that straight right off the bat. Not vaccinating kids is dangerous both to the individual child and to the population as a whole.

But let's start at the beginning, with a guy named Andrew Wakefield. He's the man that conducted the original study linking the Measles-Mumps-Rubella (MMR) vaccine to autism, back in 1998. There are a few major problems with this. First of which are two huge conflicts of interest-at the time he published the study, Wakefield was trying to get a patent for his own measles vaccine. Seems like a good reason to discredit the existing vaccine, doesn't it? Add to that he was receiving money for research from the legal fund of a lawsuit against vaccine manufacturers, and it shows that Wakefield had a pretty big stake in discrediting the MMR vaccine


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Combo Holidays

June 20th 2010 02:47
Every seven or eight years, my birthday syncs up with Father's Day. It's never really been a big deal, except now I'm a father. So last year, they synced up and suddenly I was like a kid who was born on Christmas-I got one "day off" instead of two. Call me selfish, but I want both! This year I get two days straight with excuses to not do much, and for the next several years I'll have two days within a week of each other. But there's always going to be that year when I get gypped! I suppose it's not as bad as those poor kids with birthdays on Christmas-they get shafted every year. They don't get the day to themselves, and often they get combo presents-"this is your birthday present AND your Christmas present!" I can't imagine for a kid there are many worse statements than that, unless it's a bigger present than their siblings may have gotten. "But they shouldn't be so selfish!" people say. Well, guess what. Kids are selfish. And materialistic. They can't help it, and they're pretty certainly going to feel gypped if their brothers or sisters get birthday presents AND Christmas presents, and they just get a combo present.
Anyway, this post has kind of veered off my original topic, but oh well. Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there! To all the moms, well, we'll see you after the 18th hole. Have dinner ready!
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Daddy Do List

June 15th 2010 14:19
Since I'm on summer break now, pretty soon my son will only be going to daycare two days a week and I'll be taking care of him the other three days. I'm looking forward to it, though I often start wondering what I'm going to do with him all day. I've come up with some good goals for this summer, though, aside from just plain having fun!

Goal 1: Teach him the alphabet. He knows the song already, kind of. A lot of the letters get mushed together! I don't think he'll understand what the letters are, but I at least want to teach him to identify them on sight. He's got a pretty good visual memory, I don't think learning the letters will be too hard for him as long as I don't rush it


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The Ratings Game

June 9th 2010 02:17
It sometimes confuses me how movies are rated, and it's hard to tell by commercials which movies are really appropriate for your kids (looking at you, Shrek!). The MPAA rating system (G, PG, PG-13, R, NC-17) has very broad definitions of what constitutes each rating level, and they often overlap. Their website has explanations of the different rating levels, including what levels of profanity, violence, and nudity are allowed in each. I was surprised to find out that brief nudity is allowed in PG movies...I always wondered how Airplane got a PG rating when there was a topless woman jumping across the screen in it. PG-13 can have more than brief nudity as long as it's not “sexually oriented” (think of the drawing scene in Titanic...I guess that qualifies!) Anyway, a G rating is generally pretty safe...minimal violence and no nudity, drug use, etc...though they do specify on the MPAA website that “The G rating is not a "certificate of approval," nor does it signify a "children’s" motion picture.” So even then, you may get more than you expected!

If you want to know exactly what's in the movie you're taking your kids to, I'd recommend the website www.kids-in-mind.com. They rate movies on a one-to-ten scale in three categories: sex and nudity, violence and gore, and profanity. They also give a pretty specific run-down of the different scenes where each of those take place. Yes, it may be a bit of a spoiler, but at least there won't be any surprises when you're in the theater or awkward questions from the kids afterwards


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